Sunday, December 11, 2016

A Sunflower of the Son

     I've loved sunflowers ever since 8th grade. 

     It was the last day of school, and in middle school at Harvest, you are awarded a special character trait from your bible teacher at the end of the year, which they have thought about and prayed about all year long as they've watched you grow. But that year, my bible teacher decided to change things up a bit, as far as character traits would go, and instead of herself picking one word that she would describe each one of us as, she asked all of us 8th grade girls to choose one word to describe each other. 

     When the last day of school finally came, it was definitely a bitter sweet time for all of us, being our last award ceremony as middle school students. We all met in my bible teacher's room and she shared such sweet words of encouragement with us 8th grade girls, who were about to make the big transition into high school. Then, as she handed us each a beautifully decorated flower pot, on which was written all the kind words our classmates had thoughtfully chosen to describe us, I will never forget the special analogy my teacher shared with us about the sunflower. 

     Before I go any further, here's a little background information about this special flower that has grown quite dear to my heart over the years ~

No flower can lift someone's spirits quite like the sunflowers. They are bright and cheery, and as warm and inviting as the sweet summer sun. With brilliant yellow petals, also known as "rays", sunflowers have an unmistakable sun-like appearance that has made them a crowd favorite, especially in the summer months. Sunflowers come in a number of varieties- ranging from small to very large, from having yellow petals to red. However, there is more to sunflowers than meets to eye. While they are stunningly beautiful, they also are rich in history and meaning. 

Sunflowers symbolize adoration, loyalty and longevity. Much of the meaning of sunflowers stems from its namesake, the sun itself. These flowers are unique in that they have the ability to provide energy in the form of nourishment and vibrancy- attributes which mirror the sun and the energy provided by its heat and light. Sunflowers are known for being "happy" flowers, making them the perfect gift to bring joy to someone's (or your) day. 

     So going back to my story- that day in bible class, my teacher shared with us about the sunflower, encouraging us to grow to live just like it. 

     The sunflower always points to the sun (hence the name) and likewise, my teacher encouraged us to always live our lives in a way that points back to God. The sunflower stands tall above the rest, firm and secure, with roots growing deep in the dark soil it has been planted in. It withstands heat and drought, wind and rain- sometimes it may even be wilted or crushed by the circumstances around it- but with each new day that that sunflower remains alive and growing, you can always trust that it is going to point to the sun, no matter what.

     This is exactly what we are called to be, and exactly what I hope to be as a woman of God living in such a dry and weary world. It's a special metaphor that I have carried with me ever since that last day of middle school, and have allowed God to give even more meaning and significance to as time goes on.

     When I look out my window and see all the little wild sunflowers growing in my backyard (yes, I literally have sunflowers growing in my backyard!), I not only see those flowers as bright gifts of beauty and joy, but as a way of life. Every time I look out at those flowers, I am reminded of the high standard God holds me to and the great life He is calling me to live. And every day, I choose to accept that life God's made for me, and all the challenges, blessings, rewards, struggles, treasures, dangers, sorrows, adventures, joys and surprises that that life will bring. I know that I am a "sunflower of the Son", God's son, in my own way and style, and I know that I have something special of my own that He's given me to bring to this world. :)

     So, I would like to encourage you to do just the same. To live the amazing life He's calling you to live. Because God has made you to do incredible things- to show this world what a life lived with Christ really looks like!- and as my mom once told me, know that

"You are the grandest and most beautiful of flowers. 
In a landscape littered with the sameness of carnations and lilies 
and roses, you stand tall, strong, proud- unabashedly pointed directly 
at the One who gives you life. Your brightness and splendor 
bring warmth and comfort to any situation, your strength provides 
energy and life to whatever you put your hands to, 
and the seeds of your wisdom bring sustenance to those they reach. 
You are strong. You are beautiful. You are special. You are unique."



^^^This is a picture of one of the ones growing in my backyard :)














1 comment:

  1. I loved when you said, "I know that I have something special of my own that He's given me to bring to this world." It really is true. We all have something unique and beautiful we have to offer. Your post has encouraged me to be confident about shining my light in a dark place, to be secure in who I am in God, and to be willing to let God shape me into the young woman He has called me to be. Wow, McKenna! This is another great one!!

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